I am a librarian, thinker, hiker, political activist, reader and much more living in Los Angeles County, CA.
Personally, I'd leave off trying to exchange slang like "you're da bomb" with a filthy word and let the Playwrights add it to the language. Or the rappers. Who is it that really affects slang anymore? Who knows... but even if she thought it was funny rather than offensive, you might not want to try out that new phrase in public where other folk might be scandalized. <=) Love you still, but what were you thinking with that one?
Bethany I was trying to give her a compliment. I think the world of my mom.